What are the ashes your phoenix is rising from?

As you look at where you are and what you've risen above, what are the things you had to burn down to rise anew? Some things such as shame, roll playing, hyper-control are a few of mine. I also recognized it is important to mourn what you thought you lost, what kind of parent or partner you thought you had to be - but weren't. Yet, you are truly in the perfect place at the perfect time in the perfect way.